Who's Know's What A Day Will Bring?

WHO KNOW'S WHAT A DAY WILL BRING? I was full of energy this morning when my eyes opened I immediately acknowledged my Father in heaven and thanked him for waking me up. In my head I was singing "Happy Sunday" to me in the tune of the Birthday song; I was eager and ready to take on the challenges of the day. "Bring it on." It was time for my "LIVE STREAM" ACT LIKE A SUCCESS CLASS. To start my day I had to release the warm covers that cradled me. It would have been easy to stay in bed but as I looked at what lay before me I had to get moving. I watched some of the morning News just to stay current on world events. I was taken around the world and back in thirty minutes I had my dose of the not so good news for the day. I was ready to make my own News and undaunted at the task that lay before me. As a writer and caregiver each day had its own challenges. I made a decision nine years prior to take care of my Mother who suffered from the debilitating efforts of a stroke. I’ve held various high profile corporate jobs but nothing could prepare me for one of the toughest jobs in the world care-giving, it’s physically and emotionally challenging. My Mom needs twenty four hour around the clock care, its a weighty responsibility with the daily challenges and duties, it would make the average person pull the covers back over their head. After reviewing my workout options I throw on my sweats pants grabbed a old t-shirt. I had no interest in my extensive DVD exercise collection my body wanted to go in one direction but my head said get moving. With a full schedule before me there was no time to be idle. I acknowledged the self-talk in my head and put a smile on my face with tennis shoes in hand it was time to get moving. I cracked open the front door the Sun felt warm and pleasant to my face. As I walked through the neighborhood I took in the sights and sounds around me. I took a long deep breath, watching my chest rise and fall ingesting the crisp morning air. This was my "Happy Sunday." Cars and Trucks were racing passed me as if I were walking to slow. Everybody seemed to be in a hurry but I kept up my unhurried pace. Sunday is the beginning of very long and challenging week. It's still my "Happy Sunday" my to-do-list will be there Monday with e-mails to answer, deadlines to meet and calls to return. I was preparing my mind to get ready to meet every challenge head on. With my energy level high from the "Act Like A Success Think Like A Success notes from the second day of the conference I felt like I had a battery pack strapped on I feeling supercharged! Perhaps it was the prayer's I prayed the night before or quite possibly the full night’s rest? Could it be my exercise endorphin's in overdrive? Either way I was pumped ready to take full advantage of my extra energy and nothing was going to get in my way. As the morning turned to early afternoon I was in the zone. Out of the blue a private number appeared on my telephone. I politely answered the call and I asked who was speaking, the caller respected my question and immediately answered. The moment I heard the voice my antenna went up. I knew who I thought it could be but I wanted to be absolutely certain. I allowed the caller to talk briefly. "Mr" quick began to run down his resume, he talked about regaining his good health, new money, new ventures and others money making opportunities I was not impressed! The caller shared how he’d found faith and he wanted to share his joy with me. After 14years? Really?! Let me shut it down. Dr. Steve Harvey said during the conference you'll have to shut some people down and keep the negative people out of your life. There are those who will try and hinder your dreams. There comes a times when you will have to get rid of and block people from your life. Yes, that happened. I declined his advances repeated dinner invite and congratulated "Mr" on his new found path. But, I wasn’t buying what he was selling. He went on to say how I deserved his gifts and dinner invitation. At one point he was just annoying, he apologized again for many tearful events he caused years before. I stopped him mid sentence as my mind reflected back on the relationship and painful break-up. The events of the past were just that! They had passed and had become only a distance memory, I remember the life lesson learned I told "Mr" all has been forgiven and I had moved on. As he talked I broke out in laughter and politely told him never to call me again. NUMBER BLOCKED "Who knows what a day will bring?" I recognized through the laughter I was healed! "Mr" was certainly trying to intrude on my Happy Sunday. No amounts of cash, jewelry, seductive weekend getaway could persuade me otherwise. My God given Vision has been set before me as and open door. "Mr" was now a complete stranger to me. The voice on the other end of the phone was part of my past history and had nothing to do with the bright future they lay ahead. “I'm having a beautiful bountiful Sunday."

What's Your Legacy?

What are you doing to change the world today? What's your legacy? What do you want people to remember most about you? I want people everywhere to know that I will leave a legacy of defying the odds while inspiring others to reach and stretch beyond their comfort zone to achieve their dreams. #onelife #makingadifference #itspossible

"Reality Check C'mon Get Happy."

The Sky is blue, the sky looks green no I think it white. Who's right? Does it matter? In some cases it just may! This means that how you view things is only your reality and not necessarily anyone else's. Interesting, huh? There are as many realities in the world as there are people. Whether perception is right or wrong is irrelevant. If you perceive things in a negative manner you'll respond to those things in a negative manner. The same holds true when you look at things in a positive light. Appraising your situation in a positive manners will allow you to begin feelings and behaving in a manner consistent to what you really want. So, why not use your thoughts to your advantage?

Your LIFE is waiting

Hello Winners. I've been away for a few days as I completed one of my biggest writing projects to date as Editor-In-Chief of CoffeeTalk JAZZ Magazine Los Angeles. (My brain child) Many of you may not know me or my story. I'll share the edited version. I created and started my business 10 years ago after being fired from my job because I stood for integrity and I refused to lie to save my job and make someone else involved shine like a diamond. Integrity is everything to me I stood on my principle and wouldn't back-down for that I was terminated. After working in the corporate arena 25 plus years (nothing wrong with that) I looked at my skill set, education and made the decision that I would hire myself and create my opportunity. On the other side of my decision I faced many obstacles that would typically break a person down. With no money, losing my home all the material stuff that you think is important was gone and the man who professed his love for me walked away. Armed with determination a tenacious spirit drive and the Word of God, test after test came things seems to go from bad to worse. I got still so I could hear God's voice. God slowly unfolded a new plan for my life but in the midst of reinventing myself my Mama had a massive stroke. She lay in the hospital in ICU on life support for a year. After several brain surgeries severely disabled 24 months of a very slow recovery I became her full time caregiver when doctor's send her home to die. "Ok God this can't be your will for my life." Here I am a decade later taking care of my disabled Mom while running my business full time. I said all that to say. "All things are possible for those that believe." If you want to succeed against odd all you can. "You must believe in the vision and dream God shows you when others don't it's really not for them it's for you. "Success never looks like or feels like success when your walking through the fire the striping process." I'm clear that God birthed and gave me my vision and drive to assistant other in birthing their own dreams. #Wewin #Yesyoucan #Makeupyourmind #focus #getitdone #mybrand #Igetpaidtospeak #Nomatterwhat #coach #author #born4this #doitnow #theclockisticking #notimetowaste

"Accept Your Chosen Destiny"

Happy New Year. There is no better benefits package than the one God gives to the faithful, the rewards are immeasurable. Many times we stand around waiting for people to give us the green light to life our lives. We rely on others people and resources to do what we have the power to do ourselves.

We have the Word of God and that's enough. Time to get busy.

Don't Give Up

I'm thrilled to share the concept and outline of my book. My book will be for those who would give up hope at the point of break through in the face of adversity. In my book I will share the adversities, the lessons learned and the process of getting backup after repeated knock downs. I was down but I wasn't knocked out. I'm authentic, raw and real. I'll share with you how I flipped the script during some of the darkest times I'll talk about reviving, restoring and recovery. I'm ready for the world to hear my voice and my story. My gift is speaking and writing and my legacy is empowerment, uplifting and transforming your mind about what's possible. #Iamanauthor #IGetPaidToSpeak #MsBridgetteYLewis

Your Destiny Is God Ordained

Have you asked God the purpose for your life? If not begin seeking Him now. Ephesians 1:9 promises us that he will make known the mystery of his will for your life. His plan for your life is not some big secret he's trying to keep from you he wants you you know. He's just waiting on you to put aside your plans to pursue his will.

Every answer you need in life can be found in his Word. Make a conscious effort to spend quality time with Him daily.

As far a naysayers go. Don't concerned yourself or waste your time trying to convince others of anything. In the end the vision will speak (Habakkuk 2:3) Just keep on thanking God for what he's already done and will continue to do for you.

2015 might have been a year of surviving adversity although it was difficult your still here.

"Reflections Of A Little Girl"

As a little Southern girl I wasn't sure who I was or how'd I fit into the world space. Coming from a family of Educator's I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life. Those closest to me always had their say about what they thought I'd be and I followed their path for a while until I had the courage to find and follow my own voice. I liked talking and I loved books and reading. Curious about books learning and what words meant I discovered solus in writing it was and has been a great outlet of expression. Books were my access to learning and words were my friend and a BIG way for me to have my say. Later in my life I discovered poetry and Dr. Maya Angelou's impact in the literary world. I'd stand in the mirror reading and talking as if I were Dr. Maya on stage in hopes that one day I'd sound as eloquent as some of the words she wrote. Her words are a sweet beautiful fragrant legacy living touching history. From her humble beginnings and rise to great heights she showed and scared little country girl that there is a place in the world for me. And the words I'd later write and speak would take me anywhere in the world I wanted to go. I am there! Thank you for the lift my dear Sister-Mother may your soul rest in the Master's presences.

The best advice I ever received

The best advice I ever received was to simply have no regrets. Who gave me the advice? My Mom Ms.Sara. If you asked every person in the world who gave them their best advice, it is a safe bet that most would say it was their mother I am no exception. My mother has taught me many valuable lessons that have helped shape my life. But having no regrets stands out above all others because it has formed every aspect of my life and every business decision I've made or will make. It is one thing to dish out advice; it is another to lead by example and show exactly what you mean through your actions. My Mom has always had a keen entrepreneurial streak herself. When I was a child, she inspired me to take risks some didn't work out but many of them did. But the failed lessons I learned were invaluable. The amount of time people spend looking back on failed projects astounds me. If we were to add up all of the hours spent regretting mistakes and use that time to develop new ideas, who knows how many brilliant new businesses would be created. She explained how to think of setbacks as part of a learning curve. Sometimes it will be steep, but if you concentrate on looking forward rather than back, the climb will be easier. My mother was able to ingrain that advice in me not just through words, but through action. Thank you I love you, Mama.